How to dissolve time and remove it as an obstacle

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If you’ve listened to my podcast, caught any of my lives or heard any of my rants ever, you know I don't like waiting. I have done enough freaking waiting in my life for shit to show up and it got me NOTHING.

The biggest thing I have learnt on my manifestation and mindset journey is that time only exists as a problem if we think it does. That doesn't mean that you blink your eyes and there’s a million dollars in your lap. But it does mean that if you think you have to wait for something, if you think something will take a long time, if you think you need to be more qualified or confident on order for you to get what you desire, that will become a fact and life will play out for you that way.

I spent so much time thinking I needed more of something that existed outside of me before I was able to see myself as a valuable human being. I needed more love. I needed more money. I needed more people to like me. I needed more experience. I needed more pieces of paper that said I was sufficiently able to do something. But the problem here is that those things don’t come to you. You have to decide you’re already worthy, you already have them and that you’re already the person who lives that way. Then they show up. Similar to my last post where I talked about needed to speak up before people are listening so that they can actually hear you and know that you have something to say.

We’re conditioned to wait for things. I used to be told alllll the time “don't speak until you're spoken to”. Fuck that. If I have something to say I’m going to say it. Because there are other people who NEED to hear it. NEED me to show them it’s possible to be the person before you're told you can be the person.

So how does this all relate to manifestation? If you are in the mindset of “I’ll be happy when I be/do/have the thing” you are waiting for it to show up before you’ll allow yourself to experience it.

BUT, we don't have to do that. I don't know if that technique actually works. I don't think it does. Maybe some people think that's how they do things when in fact it’s when they unconsciously switch over to the mindset of already having it that it happens.

Anyway, let's keep going. In order to get what you desire and experiences the shifts that MUST occur in order for you to up-level into the vibration of the thing/experience you desire, you have got to get there in your mind first. You have to decide you are already that person.


When I desire something new, which is usually an experience or internal shift for me, I decide I’m already there and that it’s the Universe that needs to catch up to me. I decide I already am that person and that all of the shifts that are required for me to experience in my physical reality have already happened in all time, space and dimension. I literally repeat this stuff to myself over and over and over.

I was having a conversation with a private client the other day and we were talking about this exact topic and she mentioned that she knows this is what she needs to do, but she didn't know how to do it.

You need to go into the future and think about HOW and WHO you will be when it’s in your physical reality.

So, when you are a millionaire what will your day look like? How can you bring as much of that into your life now?

When you are in a relationship who will YOU be so you can be the best partner? How can you be that person now?

What will you be doing when you are the person who gets the promotion?

This takes faith and surrender, and that's the point. Even though it might seem weird and unrealistic and hard and confusing, you must keep going.

This is what separates the people who get what they want from the people who stay the same forever. You have to be willing to believe in things you can't see. You have to be willing to believe that what you want is possible. You have to be willing to believe that YOU have to show up first, that’s it’s up to you and 100% your responsibility.

There’s a lot of work that’s has gone into me getting to this point. But I am that person now. And so are you. I know this is cheesy but it's so true; you already have everything inside you to become the person you truly want to be. Nothing outside of you can change that. If you can accept that you already have everything that is required to be that person, you can become him/her now. Give yourself permission to believe it's possible.

I love you, Brooke.

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Brooke Alexander